March 21, 2005
An Analogy...
I haven't been good with updating this journal lately, but I recently received a comment on my last entry. I don't know this man, but Matthew Bunkall of England gave me a great outlook that I normally have trouble seeing.
"Fitting in is simply being prepared to be around those that are different you don't need to change to fit in. I have never seen any fruits change to fit in my nans fruit bowl, the Apples, Pears, Grapes, oranges and bannanas. They are all fruit, all very different and all taste good."
I've tried to think of people in society (and myself) this way, but it's always too hard because I can't stop comparing myself to everyone I see. I have an inferiority complex. I don't know Matthew, but I would really love to give him a hug and tell him thank you and that he is a beautiful person, because he made me think--even if just for a second--that it was okay for me not to look and act like everyone else. That was one of the best ways I have ever heard this concept portrayed. Thank you so much, Matthew.
If only there were more compassionate people in the world...
Posted by fourrightchords on March 21, 2005 10:50 AM
Well I want to second what Matthew told you!!
You dont have to change for anyone. You just be YOU.
Its good to see you update your journal. :)
Posted by: Pilgrim at March 21, 2005 12:28 PM