awfully hard day
Right now... we are trying to deal with something so hard, I dont even know where to-- how to.. struggling to find any words. Just want to curl under some covers, hide our eyes, and go away. The 5 year old.. she started talking about something so terrible in therapy that she was told... by some family members, way too early, about death. horrible and haunting and terrible.
feel so helpless and... i dont even know. dont know how to fix this one.
Posted by pilgrim | Filed under:
I was wondering if it is hard to stay in the present. To realize the abuse is in the past and is over. By staying in the present maybe talking about all the bad that happened and realizing it will not happen again because pilgram is now grown and you no longer live with the abusers and as an adult you have learned to protect yourself and you have ppl who watch out and protect you.I bet this is very hard for the children to understand. Do they ever feel safe and what makes them feel safe? I hope my suggestions don't make things worse.They are just suggestions and if it works then I am happy for you but if it won't help then do what is best for you.I hope what I'm trying to say makes sense.You all are great and pilgram and company are good , very very good. donna