Hi Jo,I understand you are lonely and need a friend.. But I'm in AZ. IM'ing is tough because of the time change and my duties tomy family in the evenings. Email me anytiime, andlook for me online. I want to be your friend.Hugs, Judy

I know the feeling. I haven't been diagnosed with something because I don't have $ or insurance, I wouldn't know if I had a problem. But I am lonely. Went to church but I didn't make friends there, felt like I didn't belong for some reason. I have no friends at work yet. None in my neighborhood. I'll be your friend. How are you doing?

I know the feeling. My best friend told me he doesnt want to be my friend anymore cause i say stupid things. I dont mean to say stupid things. I hate being by myself all the time i just wish i could chill with someone. Sometimes i want to fucking shoot myself. But its not worth it ill just be by myself forever.

i havent had a singe freind in 20 years and it sucks

i havent had a singe freind in 20 years and it sucks

i am very lonely myself and wish i had a friend who i could go ut with and just do things together

I know you guys feel, believe me I do... I am always alone in this nice house of mine evryday. It's just me and my cat..here I am a 28 year old man with no girlfriend,no friends,no parties...I don't look like the type, but I am.

I lost my friends and i miss them loads, it's so hard to get them back...

Ah man. I used to have friends at school three years ago, then when it ended I began my slide to once again return to solitude.

Then college started and that was a long two years of having fewer and fewer friends until at the end I was friends with nobody in any of my classes.

Now its been a year and a half and I don't have any friends at work, half of the people are unaware of my name :(

I spend my Friday evenings here on the Internet when I should be spending my prime out partying and having fun. But going to a club is a lonely club if you're not there for anyone :(

Wish I had a friend. I hope you lot all find somebody, you deserve it.

hi everybody!
sometimes i feel the same...
loneliness... hm... you know what i'm thinking about? we all can be friends. mail me if you want me to be your friend. i'll answer. good luck.

btw, i forgot to give your my email,sorry:)
arena-123456@tut.by

hey guys,
yeah i'm 23 at I feel so lonely, I used to be really popular in jr high and had lots of friends...in college i had a lot of friends too, but i pushed them away for some reason, i thought I knew it all...now i'm all alone...on friday evenings i'm on the internet after work when i should be having fun with other people...i just can't relate to other people...i'm a really nice guy, but no one calls me, i've tried to reach out but no one cares....i have my pride....i believe in GOd, and I just don't understand why he allows me to be so lonely...i've tried reaching out i really really have...it's not my fault...things just are the way it is...i can't do anytrhing...i hate GOd for allowing so much pain in my loneliness...
back then i used to be superficial, i would choose cool people to hang out with...now, i just want a real friend...someone to do stuff together...i don't care who's looking...i just want someone who understands me to call me, and to spend time with...is that asking too much?

I'm 27 and have never had any real friends of any kind. I had some when I was younger, but there was never a sense of real, deep friendship with them. The most depressing thing in the world is when I log on to my cousin's Bebo pages (they're around my age, but we're not very close) and see their photos and know that they have lots of friends and good times and laughter and the normal things that go with being young and care-free. Needless to say, I don't check out their pages that often.

I too have no friend's and it is really cracking me up. I am 24 year's of age and i really should have a good few friend's built up through the year's by now but i dont. I was never popular and alway's a bit of a loner( or mabe just odd really ) i would only hang around with a neighbor and he got sick of me in the end and went off with his own friend's. now i have no one and nothing left to look forward to in life( since the best thing's in life are to be "shared").

I posted on this page a nearly five months ago and my situation hasn't changed at all. I'm trying to find as many activities as possible which are 'fun' to do by yourself. It's not easy.

What making a Loner's club? People with no or few friends can join only and not only will it be fun but it will also solve our problems.

I know how you feel!!!!! I'm 34 years old and have NEVER had a best friend. I have NEVER had truly close friendships that were long lasting. Someone from my past (Knew her from junior high and high school) contacted me in 2006 and she and I began to chat over the past year and a half or so. I saw her in person for the first time in 15 years in June 2007 and also invited her to come see me in November 2007, but from our conversations, it soon became clear that she is VERY self-abscrbed and likes to brag about her sex life A LOT, so I am cutting that connection loose. She dominated our conversations and I could barely get a word in edgewise. Trying to get to know someone as an adult that you really didn't have a chance to know as a teenager is very difficult when their life path is different than yours. She and I are just polar opposites and the friendship is not working out. I thought I finally had a best friend, but looks like that's not happening. I try to find friends via online, but that doesn't work. I know I need to get out and network more and find someone with interests similar to mine, but sometimes, that's difficult. I hope everyone can find and call at least one person a friend or best friend in this lifetime.

I thought i was just like a totally horrible person because i am 22 and i dont have any friends i did have friends i just seem to f*ck everything up but i am a different person now but im probabley just too insecure

I thought i was just like a totally horrible person because i am 22 and i dont have any friends i did have friends i just seem to f*ck everything up but i am a different person now but im probabley just too insecure

I thought i was just like a totally horrible person because i am 22 and i dont have any friends i did have friends i just seem to f*ck everything up but i am a different person now but im probabley just too insecure

I thought i was just like a totally horrible person because i am 22 and i dont have any friends i did have friends i just seem to f*ck everything up but i am a different person now but im probabley just too insecure

I wish I had some friends to go out with and who would be there for me.

yea, im pretty much like the rest of you :[
but i think much worse. i was once popular untill third grade. i tried to be the most popular kid of school but i did not notice i pushed friends i could of been so close too and ended up being a loner until today still i continue being a loner. im 14 almost 15 becoming a sophomore. i was bullied because i cried because i was punched in the face and all the kids make fun of me. i cry myself to sleep everyday. i don't have one day when i say "today was a good day". that hasn't happened in years! i wish i could have a best friend who can stand up for me and can truly trust! i wish i only wish. on Fridays im on the internet and not partying like the cool kids would do. i ruined my reputation in high school and i think its gonna stay like that:[ kids tease me because im fat. i cry like always:[ sometimes i just want to kill myself. but i love GOD too much! and my family is in a bad one right now so yeah. i haven't gone to any quinces or sweet sixteens:*[ i just think im a waste of space in this world.

i know how you all feel. i mean I think I have a good friend but he turns out to be a jerkoff who cares about himself most of the time. everyone seems to want to hang out with him isntead of me. me and him used to be best friends until he started changing and I just sat around all day on the internet. i really regret it now. i still have at least one pretty good friend left but even then hes kinda a freak and he admitted he was bi.. so yeah kinda freaked me out. i know a true friend wouldnt care.. but ugh now im just alone sitting here typing this. i feel so pathetic.

Sometimes I feel pathetic. Im a kid, 15 years old. I go to a school with 4000 people in it. Everyone around me seems to make these connections with eachother and i just cant do it. I dont know why. Im not particularly friendly and i know it, but mostly im just afraid. Im so afraid that i will get shot down. I survive on the reputation and state of mind that i dont need friends, and that im strong enough to last without them, i can never just relax. I had friends once. One was my friend since 3rd grade, but she moved across the country. Another was just a bitch, and the last one, i never get to talk to anymore. I know im whining. but i just needed to vent a little bit.

I feel the same way. I am 28 yo single F and I have 4 friends in my area. There seems to be something about being 28 years old. If you are in a good relationship or you have very close knit friends, you are fine. But if you are single without close friends, it is so difficult. I think this past year has been the worst for me.

About my friends: One is busy in college and work and is going abroad for 6 months. I am happy for him but I am sad for me since I won't see him. Nonetheless, I make sure not to show my sadness since I do not want to steal his joy. Another friend is a newly wed and is always with her husband and either her family or her in-laws. My third friend is a guy that I was sort of dating for a few months. We met online. It did not work out but we still keep in contact by phone. I don't see him very often. He always tells me about him doing this and that with his friends (he has a large close knit group of friends). I feel like such a loser when I talk to him. When he asks me what I am doing, I will sometimes lie and say that I had plans with friends too. My fourth friend is my ex-boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and he now has moved on and has a steady girlfriend, successful at his job, a house and goes away periodically on weekends. I really wish I had some close friends that I could spend time with. I watch shows like "How I met Your Mother and wish I could have a group of friends like that. I try to go to Meetups to have fun and meet new friends, but it takes a while to make a good friend.

Im 29 and I live here in San Antonio, Tx and I have but 1 friend now. I used to have friends at my old job but when I quit, I just lost touch with them. It really sucks. And now the only friend I have, has met someone and pretty much has no time for me anymore. It sucks being so lonely. Just to find that one true friend to do everything with would be wonderful.

i know, me too. i always feel so weird when im around a group of other people. i never know what to say. i am sure everyone thinks i am weird. i work in a small office, and i always hear my co-workers making plans with each other and they never invite me. it's just another reminder that i am not good enough to hang out with.

Hello! I think all of you are very nice people and deserve better.

I'm 19, go to uni...things are a little better now, at least I have my small group (but we're not that close). At school I used to follow people to make it look like I had friends. At college, I gave up and spent break-times in the library. It's hard to live life on your own...it's so empty.

Anyways...I wish you ppl all the best, someone someday will connect to you.

HEY I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN. THAT'S EXACTLY HOW I'M FEELING RIGHT NOW. YOU CAN EMAIL/IM ME ANYTIME. I'D LIKE A FRIEND TOO

We're not all the social butterflies portrayed in the media. It is important to remember the grass can seem greener on the other side. All we can do is try to love more each day and strive to achieve a better understanding of everything and everyone in our lives. Friends will come and go, but we'll always be hanging out with ourselves. Just let it happen and don't worry, because when you finally do meet a good friend; happiness is gonna hit you like a ton of bricks... I'm excited for us all! :)

Wow, I was just sitting here thinking about how I am now 30 yrs. old and have never really had that close friend connection. I just googled "wish I could have a friend" and found this blog.

After reading these posts I found myself nodding my head in agreement and even just said out loud, "yeah, me too." I know it sounds cliche but I never really thought there was anybody out there that felt the same way as me.

Sometimes, I really honestly feel I must be from a different planet because of my inabilities to make friends and be so-called "normal" when being in group situations. It really feels good to know that I am not alone. I mean I am literally sitting here w/tears coming out of my eyes.

Thank you so much to everyone who posted, you have really made a difference to me. Please feel free to email me anytime. alligstar@gmail.com