January 11, 2006
this n that
We gave the kid's dad an ultimatum last night. Either step up to the plate and start paying the child support that was court ordered, and quit using the kids to try to and get to me, and start acting like a father, or leave us and the kids alone. We aren't sure what he is gonna do but i do know that if he keeps up the way he is amy is going to have some fun with him. Amy doesn't tolerate any of the kind of stuff he has been pulling. I used to hate having Amy as part of my system, but now i am glad she is there.
Our aunt came up to stay with us over Christmas. It was wonderful. She knew about everyone inside there was no need to try and hide anything. Jill and her played a game of hide and seek and Tott even joined in. Jill and Tott spent most of the visit with her. It's ok though because they are the ones that really need someone there. It was nice to have someone else be there and be able to take care of them without making some sort of judgement.
We got our car paid off. YEAH! Still need another $700 yet though for car insurance, tabs, inspection, etc. They sure don't make getting a car easy. We have 'til April to come up with it all but don't think we are gonna make it. Gotta keep hoping we will. If ssi kicks in before then we should make it no problem.
Posted by Heavensdaughter on January 11, 2006 03:33 AM